The Stories That Connect Us

 

"This is one of the single most impressively powerful books that I have read in 20 years..." 
Award winning CEO and entrepreneur Robert Schepens


 

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"The Stories that Connect Us" explores ...
  • Why have stories been the most powerful way of connecting since the beginning of time?
  • Is social media eroding or empowering our cultural capacity for narrative?
  • What kinds of personal stories have the greatest potential for creating rich connections?
  • What are the design elements of well-crafted stories?
  • How can we listen to evoke rich meaning from each other's stories?
  • How can we build and enrich our portfolio of personal stories?
  • Why do stories have more power than statistics in inspiring transformation and change?
  • What is the future of narrative in the possibilities of our connections?

 

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From the introduction

In this golden age of connection, screens reshape the meaning of distant and close. 


Screens connect students in remote villages to a new globe of possibilities online. They reunite friends and families in continuous updates across time zones. They incubate new economies unconstrained by the boundaries of nations. 


In my grandparent’s time, the only screens were back door screens and all connections were close connections. My parents’ generation saw the advent of television screens where media became the message and the possibilities of a global village emerged.


In these days of multi-screen environments, the footprints of friendship and partnership span the size of the planet. All villages connect to all other villages in the democratization of connection. One screen mediates connections considered impossible just one generation ago, delivering the connective transformation of the planet.


We no longer confine closeness to the parsing of geographies or the parameters of generations. We define the qualities of our connections by the power of shared personal narratives. Through our stories, we live in a transparency and accessibility that reveals an abundant universe. We come together and thrive in the stories that connect us.


 

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Contents


9 Invitation


11 The Case for Stories


The golden age of connection

Why we love stories

Once, upon a time
Are we losing our narrative aesthetic?

To live is to connect

The stories we are

Mythographic identities

Quality connections

The 3 dimensions of our connections

Why we connect

Intentional connections

The power of the tribe

Alien Nation

The stories that introduce us

Stories that build trust

Stories as tools of change


43 The Nature of Stories


Stories as myth

The myths we share

No, it was Tuesday

The power of fiction

Stories & our essential uniqueness


57 StoryCrafting


Every story is hand-crafted

Story typologies

From experience to story

All stories are intentionally constructed

Constructing our stories

Storycrafting intentionality

Our choice of stories

One possible story

Narrative aesthetic

Ebe's Wish (South Africa)

Characters

Context

Complications

Conclusion

Elements of enrichment

Catalyst

Container

Commentary

Companion stories

Sizing stories

The timing of endings

The moral of the story

Start with conclusions

Narrative architecture

Strengthening your stories

What’s not important

Crowded stories

Legacy stories

Our signature stories

Futuring stories

Stories of innocence & engagement

Every discipline, a container of stories

Living new stories


111 Storytelling


The principles of storytelling

Storytelling contexts

Honoring our stories

Our inherited stories

Stories that reveal & conceal

Re/minding the brain

Storytelling as dialogue

The clash of stories old & new

Story protectors

Stories that unite & divide

Sharability footprints

The power of old stories

Traditional stories

Gossip

Returned stories

OPS

Shameless storytelling

Collecting stories

The magic of practice

The trance of storytelling


143 Storylistening

The elements of storylistening

If this was my story...

So, what’s your story?

Story as self-discovery

Engaging imagination

Listening/ resonance & curiosity

Not listening

Stop me if I’ve told this one ...

Positive deviance

Choosing the stories we hear

Harvesting stories

The magic of reframing

How stories travel

Media boosts


165 The future of stories


Our obsession with measurement

The myth of measurement

Personality typing

Statistics

Creating the community we want

The future of connections

The future of belonging connections

The future of learning connections

The future of asset connections

The future of play connections

The future of power connections

The future of narrative

Five things to do

 


184 Gratitude

 

185 My stories


Mrs. Quiggans’ House

Mike’s Mishaps

The Summer of ’72

Declaring My Major

Master of Surprises

Innovation Day

Finding my voice


201 Short Stories


Sal’s Return (Sicily)

Obrad’s Girls (Serbia)

Peter & Zoe (New Mexico)

Yukiko's Invitation (Japan)

Gabriela’s Secret (South America)

Heaven & Earth (Nepal)

Ethan’s View (Ireland)

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